Reflection

How would I measure this last year?

Often we ask one another to reflect on a certain amount of time. When our children hop in the car after school we ask “how was your day?'“ We ask our friends about their week while catching up on a solo ride home? And as we close out a year, we look internally to self reflect. What did we accomplish, did we meet our goals? Are we happier or better off than the year before?

We went through some nasty stuff this year. Grandparents aged what feels like years in a months time and a little sister diagnosed with Breast Cancer. It was hard. It was emotional. However, it brought my family closer than we’ve ever been. It added layers upon layers of faith that I hadn’t found before. Friends and extended family showed up for me and my family on repeat. My grandparents are still alive and are sharing their stories and humor with us. My sister is doing fantastic and is almost done with her treatments. Last year was hard, but it was good.

We moved into our dream neighborhood and began renovating our home. If you know me, then you know I love this and I can’t wait to share more with you. I’ve not picked up a camera in months and I miss it. My husband is happier than ever with his work and I’ve enjoyed my time at home with the boys. I spent more time with my sisters in the last 4 months than we’ve spent together over the last 4 years. And my friendships with some incredible women have strenghtened more than I could have dreamed possible.

This year, I am ready to focus on the act of celebration. I want to celebrate everything big and small with all of the people that make my life better. I want to be intentional with cards, compliments, assistance and giving.

Last year, I learned that being an open book can be so helpful to others. No one’s life is perfect and all of us have something hard going on. Cheers friends, to being supportive, transparent and always there for one another!

Love, Lanie